Dying is Easy, Comedy is Hard

oscar One of my pet peeves about the Academy Awards (there are many!) is the ridiculous anti-comedy bias the members have towards movies that are comedies and the actors that star in them. It’s almost as if they believe it’s just harder to act in a drama. Any actor will tell you that performing in a comedy can be even more difficult than more serious of dramas. This theory has also been proven by a UCLA-Hardvard study which found that an actor in a drama is nine times more likely to get a nomination than an actor in a comedy.

It really is a shame too. There have been countless excellent performances dishonored by the Academy that has insisted on ignoring and snubbing them. Taking a look at the history of the Best Actor Oscar will reveal this anti-funny bone. In recent years, Italian Roberto Beignini won in 1998 for Life is beautiful but it was a comedy set in concentration camps. the previous year jack Nicholas won for “As Good As It Gets” but before that you’d have to go back to 1977 when Richard Dreyfus took the honor for his incredible turn in Neil Simon’s “The GoodBye Girl” (1977). Ironically enough, he beat out Woody Allen for his role in “Annie Hall” which incidentally won the Best Picture Oscar that year which is another extremely rare event at the Oscars!

Speaking of Best Pictures that were comedies, it’s been a decade since the last winner was considered a comedy. That was 1998 for “Shakespeare in Love” which was more of a romantic period piece with comedic moments. Forest Gump won in 1994. Driving Miss Daisy and Rain Man won and were funny but were they truly comedies? I’d say Woody’s “Annie Hall” is really the only TRUE comedy that has won the Best Picture Oscar in the last 30 days.

As for snubs, here are some of the ones that come to mind for me. Jim Carrey has done work a few times that deserved at least a nomination but for whatever reason he has always been given the cold shoulder. It’s a crime that Steve Martin has never been honored. Robin Williams has been snubbed many times but fortunately he’s been acknowledged for his “Serious” roles such as “Good Will Hunting” which he won for Best Supporting Actor and nominated for “The Fisher King”, “Dead Poet’s Society” and “Good Morning, Vietnam”. Tom Hanks was nominated for his great job in “Big” but lost. Dustin Hoffman was nominated for his awesome work in “Tootsie” but deservedly lost to “Gandhi” so that was forgivable.  The list of snubs is endless.

Anyway, I like the way the Golden Globes sets aside two different categories for Comedy and Drama. The Oscars could do the same thing or just stop all the anti-comedy bias and start honoring these brilliant actors. If they do, then there will be no doubt that Jack Black will be giving the best acceptance speech EVER!

Speaking of Jack and the Oscars, here’s one of the funniest bits ever on the show. Jack Black and Will Ferrell address this anti-comedy bias by the members of the Academy in song! Embedding disabled yet again for some reason. Here’s the link

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St. Elmo’s Fire

St-Elmo-s-Fire-Posters One of my favorite movies and a vastly underrated one is “St. Elmo’s Fire” (1985). Yes, it featured what was then called the Brat Pack (under-handed slap in the face reference to the Rat Pack with Sinatra & Dean Martin). The Brat Pack consisted of young actors, i.e. Demi Moore, Alli Sheedy, Emilio Estevez, Rob Lowe and others.

Anyway, this was their crowning achievement. Ok, that’s not saying much. Still, I really enjoy this movie. I think it’s because it brings back such great memories of the 80s. I also enjoyed the whole vibe of the movie. It was about a bunch of 20somethings right out of college full of hope and ready to conquer the world. I was a little younger than they were but I understood the whole feeling.

For example, one of the sweetest moments comes in the following scene. Mare Winningham portrays a rich young woman who refuses to take money from her dad and wants to make it on her own. She works at a shelter for practically no money and gets a tiny little apartment. In this scene she’s near tears describing how happy she was making a peanut butter and jelly sandwich in the middle of the night because she realized it was her apartment and it was the best sandwich she ever had. Poignant scene. Monumental for everyone that finally moves out on their own in this life. In this clip, before this scene, Rob Lowe talks to Demi Moore and reveals what the title of the movie means.

I also love the music soundtrack for the movie. David Foster’s love theme is magnificent and I even enjoy John Parr’s St’. Elmo’s Fire (Man in Motion) rocker that was a big hit. The movie was set in Georgetown and around our nation’s capital.

Here’s a funny scene
Here’s the entire movie in 11 parts

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Bolt

Bolt_v23_0A_WDP_G2 I took the boys to see “BOLT” last night and thoroughly enjoyed it as much as they did, perhaps even more. First, it was a visually stunning experience because we went to see the 3D version. Now, I’ve seen a lot of 3D movies in my time but nothing like this one. RealD 3D technology is the real deal folks. Yes, you still have to wear the glasses but it’s well worth it this time.

As for the movie itself, the story was very good. As you know from the trailer, it’s about a dog (John Travolta’s voice) that actually thinks he’s a super dog until he gets lost trying to find his “person”, the little girl that owns him, Penny (voice of Myley Cyrus). Along his adventures Bolt encounters all kinds of enchanting creatures such as a hilarious gerbil that steals the show with non-stop theatrics. Other funny characters are the alley cat and the pigeons from NYC (Italian-American sounding birds) and LA (Hollywood types always ready to pitch a movie).

Besides all the expected humorous scenes, there were also a few heart-touching moments that surprised me. Sure, there was the expected little girl and dog reunion scene that was very sweet but there were others that caught me off-guard. For example, during his trek across the country with his sidekick Gerbil and cat, Bolt has to learn to deal with heartbreak and accept the fact that he’s not a superdog. He also must re-learn how to become a real dog again. In a sweet sequence of scenes, we see Bolt discovering the joys of playing fetch, wrestling with other dogs and the sheer pleasure of sticking his face out the window of a moving vehicle (with tongue hanging out).

bolt1 I might have read more into that sequence of events than was originally intended but I was moved by the whole thing. I kept thinking it was similar to the way we all try to be superdogs and sometimes feel disillusioned when we realize that we’re just regular folk. As for the sequence where Bolt re-discovers his true inner dog, I thought it was a good lesson for how we should try to re-discover our true selves again and remember all of the things that used to give us such pleasure and joy. Along the way to becoming super heroes we tend to forget who we really are and what makes us happy.

The beautiful song at the end of Bolt, “I Thought I Lost You”, also moved me tremendously. Sure, it was partly because it summarized a happy ending for the story as the dog and girl find each other again, but again I think it meant more than that to me. Because of the other things I felt during the movie, I think it lead to my feeling that much more when I heard the song. The lyrics to me could aptly apply to an adult speaking to their lost inner child that they’ve abandoned long ago. For example,

I turned around and you were gone and on and on the days went
but I kept the moments that we were in
‘Cause I hoped in my heart, that you would come back to me my friend
And now I got you, but I thought I lost you!

I think it’s vital that we keep that childlike innocence and sense of wonder no matter how old we get. Being a parent gives us the opportunity to rekindle that relationship with our true self. Watching the world through our children’s eyes forces us to fall in love with life all over again. Remember the joys of our own childhood and all those dreams we had. It’s never too late to make dreams come true. As Disney teaches us, “A dream is a wish your heart makes”.

Here’s the trailer

Here’s the short version of “I Thought I Lost You” with Myley Cyrus and John Travolta.

Here’s the full song

Here are the lyrics

I THOUGHT I LOST YOU

MILEY
Nobody listens to me, don’t hear a single thing I’ve said
Say anything to soothe me, anything to get you from my head
Don’t know how really I feel,
Cause it’s the faith that makes it like I don’t care
Don’t know how much it hurts to turn around like you were never there
Like somehow you could be the break and I could walk away from the promises we made
And swore we’d never break!!

MILEY AND TRAVOLTA CHORUS
I thought I lost you when you ran away to try to find me
I thought I’d never your sweet face again.
I turned around and you were gone and on and on the days went
but I kept the moments that we were in
‘Cause I hoped in my heart, that you would come back to me my friend
And now I got you, but I thought I lost you!

TRAVOLTA
I felt so empty out there, and there were days I had my doubts
but I knew I’d find you somewhere
because I knew I couldn’t live without you in my life for one more day
and I swore I’d never break a promise we made
MILEY AND TRAVOLTA CHORUS
I thought I lost you when you ran away to try to find me
I thought I’d never your sweet face again.
I turned around and you were gone and on and on the days went
but I kept the moments that we were in
‘Cause I hoped in my heart, that you would come back to me, my friend
And now I got you, but I thought I lost you!

TRAVOLTA
I told myself I wouldn’t sleep ’til I searched the world from sea to sea

MILEY
I made a wish upon a star, I turned around and there you were

MILEY AND TRAVOLTA
And now here we are, are

MILEY
here we are
I thought I lost you

TRAVOLTA
I thought I lost you too

MILEY
I thought I lost you

TRAVOLTA
I thought I lost you

MILEY
yeah

MILEY AND TRAVOLTA CHORUS
I thought I lost you when you ran away to try to find me
I thought I’d never your sweet face again.
I turned around and you were gone and on and on the days went
but I kept the moments that we were in
and I knew in my heart, that you would come back to me, my friend
And now I got you, I thought I lost you!

MILEY
but I thought I lost you

TRAVOLTA
I thought I lost you too

BOTH
so glad I got you, got you

MILEY
so glad I got you, yeah yeah
I thought I lost you

TRAVOLTA
I thought I lost you too

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Shindler’s List

Everyone’s seen Shindler’s List (1993) by now and knows how incredible it is so I won’t go on and on about how important this movie is or how unforgettable it is. There’s no question that this is one of those rare cinematic experiences that you can consider a life changer because it stays with you forever.

Watch this scene near the end of the movie where Oscar Shindler finally realizes the magnitude of what he did and the anguish of knowing he could have done even more had he not been so selfish. It’s an emotionally gripping sequence. The entire movie is that way. It was Stephen Spielberg’s finest moment in a magnificent career. By the way, that very same year (1993) Spielberg had the summer’s biggest blockbuster with Jurrassic Park and then ended the year with the Academy Award winning Shindler’s List. No one’s ever had a better year as a director for commercial and artistic achievement and excellence.

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I Thought I Lost You

I was all set to take the kids to see the upcoming Disney movie “BOLT” anyway, but seeing this clip with Myley Cyrus and none other than John Travolta singing a song called “I Thought I Lost You” has me looking forward to seeing it too. I’d like to hear the full song whenever it’s available too.

For those of you too young to know, but Travolta sang before in a movie called GREASE some 30 years ago (GULP!) in 1978. He sang the classics, “Sandy”, “Summer Nights” and “Greased Lightning” (replete with vulgar lyrics too harsh to share online). He also had a solo hit called “Let Her In”.

Here’s a sample of the wonderful song from “BOLT”

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How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days

how_to_lose_a_guy_in_ten_days Guilty pleasure time! I LOVE “How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days ”! Matthew McConaughey and Kate Hudson are wonderful together in this fun, funny and touching story. In short, it’s about two people trying to use the other for their own professional gain but something unexpected happens along the way while pretending to care about each other.

The entire cast was enchanting as well. That’s always the sign of a good movie. Every little role was filled perfectly by excellent actors. The friends are believable, not just fillers or props used to setup jokes. They also reveal a lot about the main characters, providing subtext that only adds to the enjoyment and enhancement of the love story.

The movie shows you that no one can control that beast known as love. It’s a magical ethereal thing that no one knows when it’ll strike or how it happens. There they were, learning every little thing about each other, the good and the bad and blammo!

One of the sweetest scenes ever is when Andie (Kate Hudson) goes to Ben’s parents house and meets his whole family and gets to learn a lot more about him and starts to realize that she actually has feelings for him. It’s a tender moment that gets you. The song “Feels like Home” is a perfect selection for the scene and movie. The other great song for the movie comes at the end by Keith Urban, “Somebody Like You”.

Here’s the trailer to whet your whistle

Here’s the fantastic song “Somebody Like You” with clips from the movie by Keith Urban.

Whenever I’m down I’ll pop this movie in or play this music video and I feel fantastic immediately!

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Pure Imagination

I’ve grown to love Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory more with time, especially since I’ve become a dad three times over and each child has fallen in love with the movie (along with the recent remake, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory). Each time, I’ve fallen in love with this classic movie and story all over again.

The music is wonderful, such as “Candy Man”, “I’ve Got a Golden Ticket” and especially my favorite, “Pure Imagination”. Here’s the scene where we were introduced to “Pure Imagination”. I remember as a kid wishing I could go to such a place where everything was made of candy and chocolate.

I think one of the reasons why I love this movie so much is because it’s all about keeping in touch with your inner child. It stirs up childhood memories and dreams which always fills you with youth and inspiration. It’s such a marvelous feeling. I also enjoy watching the expressions on kids’ faces as they watch the movie.

Here’s the Golden ticket scene.

Here’s the entire movie compiled from 12 clips on YouTube (plus the trailer)

Here are the lyrics including some of the dialogue for the “Pure Imagination” scene and song

Willy Wonka:
[Spoken]
Hold your breath
Make a wish
Count to three

[Sung]
Come with me
And you’ll be
In a world of
Pure imagination
Take a look
And you’ll see
Into your imagination

We’ll begin
With a spin
Traveling in
The world of my creation
What we’ll see
Will defy
Explanation

If you want to view paradise
Simply look around and view it
Anything you want to, do it
Wanta change the world?
There’s nothing
To it

There is no
Life I know
To compare with
Pure imagination
Living there
You’ll be free
If you truly wish to be

If you want to view paradise
Simply look around and view it
Anything you want to, do it
Wanta change the world?
There’s nothing
To it

There is no
Life I know
To compare with
Pure imagination
Living there
You’ll be free
If you truly
Wish to be

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Gladiator

Gladiator Year later, I still think about Gladiator, the Oscar winning movie starring Russell Crowe who also won the Oscar for his amazing performance. It wasn’t just an action movie, even though there was plenty of that for sure. What stays with me are all of the powerful moments such as the scenes when Maximus walks through a field while feeling the wheat with his fingertips as that haunting music plays in the background. Other chilling scenes are when he survives certain death in the arena for the first time and the anguish of discovering his murdered wife and child, which in essence is the moment his will to live vanquishes and propels him to accomplish all that does. His courage and bravery born out of the tragic death of his family. I liked how he would kneel down and grab a handful of dirt and smell it and feel it before a big battle. The ending is also incredibly moving and memorable. His visions of walking through the field towards his wife and child to re-unite is unforgettable.

There are tons of great lines as in every great film. Some of my favorites are all from Maximus:
“What we do in life echoes in eternity.”
”Strength and honor.”
“At my signal, unleash hell!”

I think a critical element to any great movie is the music and soundtrack. Gladiator has an magnificent soundtrack scored by the great Hans Zimmer (Lion King). The woman that sings the chilling vocals is perfect. My favorite track is the one called Elysium, the music played whenever Maximus walks through the fields.

I know we don’t live in Roman times and I am not a gladiator, but I’m inspired by this movie and its music. I feel somehow more motivated to combat whatever foes that get in my way and feel confident that I can overcome any obstacles that I encounter. I know it’s silly but that’s how I feel. Maybe it’s because I’m Italian and I feel some sort of connection to the story….I don’t know what it is. I just love it.

Here’s Elysium

Here’s a tribute to the movie along with the scene of Maximus
walking through the fields.

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Fearless

fearless The movie “FEARLESS” (1993) is another one of those films that stays with you forever. Every once in a while I’ll remember a scene from that movie starring Jeff Bridges. It’s another classic directed by Peter Wier who also did Witness, Dead Poet’s Society, Green Card and The Truman Show.

It centers around a man (Jeff Bridges) that survives a horrific plane crash. He struggles with his demons and guilt over why he was spared and so many others perished. He meets another survivor from that crash, played wonderfully by Rosie Perez. She portrays a mom that has to endure the anguish of losing her baby in the crash, blaming herself for not holding on to her child tight enough.

I guess it’s always extra special whenever a movie or book covers a near-death experience. This movie does a fantastic job with this subject matter. All of the characters are realistic, including the helpless wife played by the lovely Isabella Rossellini. The ending isn’t the usual Hollywood type either. What a wonderful experience you’ll never forget.

Here’s the trailer that gives a good taste of what’s in store for you

Here’s the intense crash scene set to a ColdPlay tune

Here’s the entire movie in 12 parts

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Apron Strings

Everything But the Girl’s “Apron Strings” is the other unforgetable song from the movie “She’s Having a Baby” (1988) that I’ve covered on here before (“This Woman’s Work”). It’s such a beautiful song about a common every day object that takes on monumental meaning. Every little thing changes when you have a baby and it’s all for the best.

Apron strings
Hanging empty crazy things
My body tells me
I want someone to tie to my
Apron strings
Apron strings
Waiting for you pretty things
That I could call you
I want someone to tie to my
Lonely apron strings.
Your baby looks just like you when you were young
And he looks at me with eyes that shine
And I wish that he were mine
Then I go home
To my
Apron strings
Cold and lonely,
For time brings
thoughts that only
Will be quiet when someone clings
to my apron strings.
And I’ll be perfect in my own way
When you cry I will be there
I’ll sing to you and comb your hair
All your troubles I will share
For apron strings
Can be used for other things
Than what they’re meant for
and you’d be happy wrapped in my
Apron strings
You’d be happy wrapped in my
Apron strings

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