Daddy Videos

Here’s a bunch of my favorite songs/videos about dads and for dads.

The playlist includes:

Father of Mine – EverClear
You Can Let Go Now Daddy – Crystal Shawanda
You’re Gonna Miss This – Trace Atkins
Watching You – Rodney Atkins
Let Them Be Little – Bill Dean
Butterfly Fly Away – Miley Cyrus & Billy Cyrus
Something To Be Proud of – Montgomery Gentry
He Didn’t Have To Be – Brad Paisely
Oh Father – Madonna
Take a Picture – Filter
Then They Do – Trace Atkins
All I Ask for Anymore – Trace Atkins
Just Another Day in Paradise – Phil Vassar
Wide Open Spaces – Dixie Chicks

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A Son’s First Love

This commercial ALWAYS gets to me. Even before I became a dad, this commercial was special. It’s only become extra special through the years as I watch how much my two boys love their mom. I’ve also been blessed to experience the love of a beautiful little princess, my daughter Rachel.

Checkout the reaction on the mom’s face at the very end when she realizes what her son just did. Also checkout the beginning when he kind of gives her a clue as to what he’s up to. Wonderful commercial that makes it memorable. Publix is known for great spots like this.

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Oh How The Years Go By

I love Amy Grant and her “Oh How The Years Go By” is one of my favorites. It truly sums it all up for parents. I’ve always heard other parents say that but now I see what they mean. I remember when each of my three children were born. It feels like yesterday. It really does. Please do your best to enjoy it every chance you get, even when you’re dealing with a million things, changing diapers, cleaning up urps and messes. You will miss things you never imagined you would.

Here are Nicholas (10 this month), Matthew (6) and Rachel (3)
I made this little movie with a fantastic program called MuveeReveal in a matter of minutes.
They’re also behind SHWUP which is an online photo and movie service.

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Glory Baby

The anguish of suffering a miscarriage stays with you forever. The pain might subside to a certain degree but it will always remain with you deep down inside. You always think about how things could’ve been, what milestone you would’ve celebrated had your baby lived. Yes, it’s a torturous game that parents play but we can’t help it. For some reason, it helps with the healing.

The other thing that seems to give some semblance of peace is music like the wonderful “Glory Baby” by Watermark.
The song is a beautiful tune in and of itself, but when you add in the lyrics and the message of the song then it makes it extra special. It’s become a powerful anthem for all parents that have endured the devastation of losing a child.

If you go to Youtube or do a search on google for Glory Baby you will be amazed by all of the results that you see. There are countless precious souls out there who’ve used this song as their tribute to their lost little angels. It truly is a touching and heart-breaking experience. Here are some of the tributes followed by the lyrics.

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There’s even a Second Life video of “Glory Baby”

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GLORY BABY by Watermark

Glory baby you slipped away as fast as we could say baby…baby..
You were growing, what happened dear?
You disappeared on us baby…baby..
Heaven will hold you before we do
Heaven will keep you safe until we’re home with you…
Until we’re home with you…

Miss you everyday
Miss you in every way
But we know there’s a
day when we will hold you
We will hold you
You’ll kiss our tears away
When we’re home to stay
Can’t wait for the day when we will see you
We will see you
But baby let sweet Jesus hold you
‘till mom and dad can hold you…
You’ll just have heaven before we do
You’ll just have heaven before we do

Sweet little babies, it’s hard to
understand it ‘cause we’re hurting
We are hurting
But there is healing
And we know we’re stronger people through the growing
And in knowing-
That all things work together for our good
And God works His purposes just like He said He would…
Just like He said He would…

BRIDGE:
I can’t imagine heaven’s lullabies
and what they must sound like
But I will rest in knowing, heaven is your home
And it’s all you’ll ever know…all you’ll ever know…

Note: There are many excellent online support sites that can help the healing process.
http://www.inthesavioursarms.com
http://www.missionaryresources.com/miscarriage.html
http://home.mend.org

Here’s a good article on “Mourning a Miscarriage”
Here’s a book called “Empty Arms”

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G.I. Joe

My brothers and I loved G.I. Joe! It wasn’t a doll for boys, but an action figure!
It’s amazing how popular it still is today. They’ve even re-issued the original G.I. Joe as a special collector’s edition.

My little brother has an impressive collection today of not only G.I. Joe, but many of the toys and games we played with in a our youth. It’s amazing how the memories flood the mind when you see these things from your childhood!

Here’s the history of G.I. Joe

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Here’s Matt Mason, another series of action figures for boys. This time, instead of soldiers, these heroes were astronauts!

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The Courtship of Eddie's Father

Today is Father’s Day so I’m remembering one of my favorite TV shows ever, “The Courtship of Eddie’s Father” starring Bill Bixby. I’ve always loved that show and I think it was special to me because I grew up without a dad so I always longed for such a relationship. Now that I’ve become a father myself (I have three amazingly wonderful kids), I find that this TV show has taken on extra special meaning to me thru the years.

I really try my best to enjoy each and every moment that I am blessed to have with my children, especially the kind of moments that this show’s intro’s usually highlighted. Even during such tender, sweet moments I will get images from this show and it’ll make me smile.

The theme song is also one of my favorites, “Best Friend” by Harry Nilsson.
I remember singing that one all the time when my son was a baby and I still sing it to him on occasion, much to his dismay. Here are the words.

BEST FRIEND
by Harry Nilsson

People let me tell you ’bout my best friend,
He’s a warm hearted person who’ll love me till the end.
People let me tell you bout my best friend,
He’s a one boy cuddly toy, my up, my down, my pride and joy.
People let me tell you ’bout him he’s so much fun
Whether we’re talkin’ man to man or whether we’re talking son to son.
Cause he’s my best friend.
Yes he’s my best friend.
(scat finish).

Here’s an example of the wonderful intro’s to the show.

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Here’s a clip with a slightly different version of the song by Nillson

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Here’s yet another interesting variation, called My Girlfriend.

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How Safe Is Your Neighborhood?

This is not going to be a pleasant experience so brace yourself. This is about finding out information that you really don’t want to know about your neighborhood, but trust me this is important and worth doing. Thanks to technology you are now able to perform a search for all registered sex offenders in your neighborhood and surrounding areas. Yes, I know that this is a disturbing topic but it’s something all parents must be aware of.

So, for those of you who can handle it, here is a powerful tool that will help you learn how safe your neighborhood is and could possibly ensure the safety of your family and their friends.

Family WatchDog is an excellent service that works like google maps where you enter your address and it generates a map showing the location of each and every sex offender in your area. It will list the total sex offenders that appear on the map as well as those that aren’t mappable for whatever reason. Here’s the map results for my area in Alpharetta, Georgia:

The red squares are where registered sex offenders against children live. Burgundy squares indicate where they work. Yellow squares indicate rapists and blue indicates Sexual Battery offenders. Clicking on any square launches a new page with a great deal of information of the sex offender including their name, aliases, address, map of their location, convictions, Description, and a photograph. It’s all starling information, especially the closer they are to your home.

If offenders do not appear on the map, the LIST tab is another option to view this information. This is what it will look like:

Clicking on the name will launch the same detailed web page with all the information registered with that offender.

The Offender addresses dropdown list gives the option to list the unmappable offenders for more details.

The Recent Address Changes reveals the offenders who’ve been on the move and changed addresses.

The Get Free Alerts will send you email notifications about any of the offenders that you flag.

The send map to a friend lets you share information with anyone you believe needs to know about a specific offender.

Summation:

I’m not doing this for sensationalism or to generate blog traffic. I promise you that I would give anything in the world if we didn’t have to deal with these types of things in life. I’m the father of three small children so my number one priority is protecting my family. I know that there are many other parents who feel the same way and that will appreciate having this service and the valuable information it provides.

I have to add that everyone in life deserves a second chance in life. I believe in our justice system, despite all its faults and problems, it is the best in the known world. While I believe that MOST of these offenders will commit sexual crimes again in their lifetime, I do not believe that ALL of them will do so. Please do not condemn everyone in this registry automatically. People make mistakes and these individuals have certainly made the biggest mistakes of all, but we should never just give up all hope on anyone without first giving them the chance for rehabilitation. Many of them will actually become contributing members to society. However, it makes sense to keep informed of where these individuals are located especially in relation to your neighborhood and schools.

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Just a Dog

Spike was a min-pin (miniature doberman pincher) that didn’t get the memo that he wasn’t a full-sized doberman. He got so sick at the end that I had to take him to the vet to put him down. Now I’m a big tough Italian man so I thought it wouldn’t be that tough so off we went. I rationalized that it would end his pain.
As the vet injected Spiker I held him and our eyes locked. I couldn’t believe how emotional it became for me. A grown man for goodness sakes!
Spike finally relaxed and fell asleep forever and I managed to keep my composure. I remember being numb all the way home and finally crying as I got home knowing he wouldn’t be there to jump on me as I walked through the door.
Here’s a poem I wrote that same day. How could I have felt so much for Spike? I mean, he was just a dog. Wasn’t he? I know he wasn’t just a pet to us. He was and always will be part of the family.
JUST A DOG
I am a grown man crying over a dead canine.
I was okay while at the vet’s today and thought I would be fine.
After all, he was not a person, he was just a dog that died.
I never thought that I would be one of those who easily cried.
It is not the end of the world, this much I know is true.
But all I can think is “Spike, my sweet Min Pin, I’ll always miss you!”
Yes, he was an ornery and snippy little guy.
But it is so hard to let him go and say good-bye.
The fact is that he was very sick and there really was no other choice.
Still, it kills me knowing that I had to silence his sweet little voice.
It did put an end to his constant pain, but began mine.
It did not help any burying him under a stony sign.
It will be toughest for me when I go to sleep at night.
That’s when the snarling mongrel snuggled up real tight.
Like any dog, he sure loved getting his doggy treats.
I guess there won’t be any more crumbs in my sheets.
Everyone who knew Spike loved him and his tough guy attitude.
But few ever really saw his kind, peaceful and loving mood.
I know that Spike lived a rich and content 10 and 70 years.
I know he was just a dog, but it does not stop the tears!

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Best Quality Heart


Amy Tan’s classic story of “The Joy Luck Club” is a wonderfully moving experience that stays with you forever. It reveals so much about the dynamic and mysterious relationship between mothers and daughters, no matter what nationality or culture. I think the lessons learned can also apply for the relationship with sons as well so the story is not just meant for women.

It is one of my all-time favorite books and movies. I can never watch the movie without being moved intensely. Each of the mother-daughter stories reveal tremendous amounts of truth and emotion. The Joy Luck Club is indeed a life-changing experience.

Here’s a clip from one scene that shows how powerful and magical this story is. The daughter finally tells her mother how she feels about the fact that she turned out to be a failure to her.

Best Quality Heart clip


Here’s the trailer. Watch for two particular scenes near the end. The first is involves an amazing exchange when the mother tells her daughter that she’s married the wrong man and needs to salvage her life and self-respect. In a moment that made me gasp she tells her baby girl “Losing him does not matter! It is YOU that will be found!”

The other scene involves another daughter and her estranged husband who has fallen out of love with her because she became so submissive and subservient that turned into a stranger to him.
Watch how she sits in the rain in numbing realization that she had stopped being her true self in the relationship and decides to stop being weak and stands up to him. Amazing stuff.

Summary

This is not just a chick flick. It is a beautiful and memorable story that everyone needs to experience. I dare anyone to watch it without being moved to tears.

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The Seven Year Itch

Here is the Video of that german politician who actually wants to propose a new law that would limit all marriages to seven years at which time the couple would have the option to renew the license for another seven years or let it expire! Talk about scratching a seven year itch! Zoiks!!! What do you think of this? I guess it’s like the subject matter of prenuptial agreements. Some think prenups kill the romance, others consider it vital.

Here’s the News Item and an interesting Article.

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